Best I'll Ever Be
I attended a membership class at church the other day. Part of our time was spent in discussion groups where we were asked to say the best advice we had ever received. I said I had two - one from my mom and one from my dad. Coincidentally, both are biblical, which actually took me a long time to realize. My mom always reminds me to treat others the way you would want to be treated (#1) whereas my dad has countless times told me that he has never said anything out of anger that he didn't later regret (#2).
Out of all of the things my parents have individually and collectively taught me over the years, these are the #1 things that have stuck out to me from each of them. Whether or not that is what they would choose for me to remember, I am not sure. But much is to be said for both tidbits of wisdom. Too often I have spoken out of anger and later regretted it. Many, many times I have held my tongue in silence and later praised the Lord for His mercy in granting me a filter allowing comments to be kept to myself. I could give plenty of examples, but what I really want to talk about is the advice my mom has passed along....The Golden Rule.
The picture at the top of this post is of Jesus at the Last Supper. I was looking specifically for one of Him washing the disciples feet, but this was the best I could find. (Anyone looking to buy me a Christmas present??) The extreme significance of Him washing the disciples' feet is amazing to me and I feel I have only begun to tap into the truth behind the Heart of Jesus in this act of servanthood. At the Last Supper, Jesus knew his time had come. Not only that, he knew who would betray him and that the betrayal would end with much suffering. Yet he took on the very lowest form of a servant and washed his disciples' feet. One by one, he kneeled at their feet, cleansed them with water, then dried them with a towel. In John's account, it sets the scene by saying, "It was just before the Passover Feast. Jesus knew that the time had come for him to leave this world and go to the Father. Having loved his own who were in the world, he now showed them the full extent of his love." Amazing.
"He now showed them the full extent of his love."
The greatest act of love Jesus showed his disciples was to kneel before them and act as a servant to them. (It can be argued that Jesus's death on the cross was not out of love for us, but rather out of love for God....but that's probably another day's topic.) To place himself, essentially, at the bottom of the food chain and to treat them as royalty. The King of all creation washing stinky, dirty, nasty, grangy, mangly, sweaty, warty, calloused feet. In the stillness of that night, he knew that Judas would trade him for death, yet out of love and devotion to a friend who did absolutely nothing to deserve it, Jesus served him too.
I mean, really, this blows me away.
And I have much more commentary on it but I may save it for a later date in time because I want you to really think about the significance of this passage. I will let this be a time where I hold my tongue so that you may listen to the Lord's thoughts on the passage, not mine. ¡Toda la alabanza al dios para su amor que nunca falla!
Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. - Ephesians 5:1-2
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The great thing is where Jesus is now at the right hand of God and what He is doing for not only me but for all who believe "Therefore He is able also to save forever those who draw near to God through Him, since He always lives to make intercession for them." Heb 7:25 I also like in Galatians 5:13 when Paul says "For you were called to freedom, bretheren; only do not turn your freedom into an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another." This is what Jesus did for us, lived in freedom even though He knew of the trials ahead he still loved me so much as to die on the cross for my sins so that I may have a relationship with God. Great insight Brittney Jane!
hi beej.
As to your dad's advice, i'm glad your filter works sometimes. now if only i could figure out how to turn it off and on at will...
good thoughts on mom's advice. something to mull over...
and as jesus calls us to forgive - I forgive you for stealing my picture!! just as the person who took it forgave me, I hope ;)
lawsuits here we come
hey! I stole that picture fair and square from Mel Gibson. Let it be formally acknowledged that he owns the copyright should any questions/concerns arise.
Hey BJ, thanks for leaving that awesome comment inviting me to become friends. I've been also thinking about the possibility. We have to acknowledge that it would be freaking awesome and would probably dwarf any other friendship that has ever existed in the whole universe. With that said, I'll wait till I talk to Gail about the whole thing. It's good that she knows both of us so that I can hear a fair assessment on your friend-related skills. Now, talking more seriously, I was just kidding. Of course we need to be friends! And hey! thanks for that awesome link to the python article, that was hilarious! And .. that picture of the thunderstorm entry ... that is beautiful. Well, this was a long comment. I'll keep you informed on the proceedings to establish our friendship.
Luis
no one is a better friend than me...all other friendships are compared to me...i am the basis for all, wait, crap, nevermind - I am a fraud!!!
the email about calvin and hobbes - very interesting! but do you ever work? I'm on my feet all but 22min a day...life isn't fair, and you get paid more to surf the internet and talk on the phone
....and somebody just got a raise too. ;) The grapevine reveals you've had an interesting week. Call me this weekend and we will chat. "If I was invisible...." :)
UPDATE ME! I'M DYING WITHOUT NEW MATERIAL TO GIVE THESE PEOPLE!!!! HOW DO YOU EXPECT ME TO MAKE THEM LAUGH OR TEACH THEM GREAT THINGS WITHOUT ANYTHING NEW!?!?! FEED ME!!
hey bj, guess who that last comment was from. follow the link and find out. or just trust that i just gave it away!
hey! is the luis posted here the very Luis Meggo, the one and only? as in "mi amor peruano"? luis, if it's you (and i'm 99.9% sure it is), come by my place (blog) too and say hi! i hope you are doing well:) i just hope BJ doesn't get mad that i'm using her to talk to you. she can deal with it...I do hope everything's great with you though- Where are you?
i'm an idiot (given). luis, you might have figured it out, but in case you didn't, this is kristi bercos writing all this nonsense...
update already, shoot - a ton of things are going on in your life!! and don't tell me to do the same
That's the problem! There's never any time! Never any time to study.... I'm going to fail my geometry midterm.... I'm never gonna get into Stanford.... I'm so excited.... I'm so excited... I'm so..... scared!!!
i'm so freaking confused!! BJ, since when are you applying to Stanford?????!!!!! Or whatever metaphor that applies to...?!?!?
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